Before you can explore a power dynamic with someone else, it helps to know what you’re actually drawn to — and why. That part is harder than it sounds.
This workbook is for the mapping phase: the time before you’ve named a role, chosen a structure, or had any of the bigger conversations. It asks you to sit with feelings rather than declare preferences, and to let what pulls at you do the talking.
What’s inside:
- Understanding the landscape — D/s, M/s, Handler/pet, Caregiver/little, and other frameworks explained plainly
- The orientation scales — 17-point feeling-based scales to locate yourself without pressure
- Dominant and submissive prompt sets — what draws you to leading, what draws you to following
- The Parking Lot — a grid for things you’re curious about but not ready to name yet
- Limits, edges, and off-the-table — what you’re sure of and what needs conditions
- Your Map — four quadrants for what you want to explore, what you’re uncertain about, and where you are right now
25 pages. Print or fill in digitally. Part of the Skillfully Bound Beginner Set.
